RE: Exploring the Complexities of Surrogacy: A Personal Thought.

Let me clear some of your doubts....

#1. Surrogacy has to be done willingly or else it has become human trafficking.

#2. Surrogacy has legal backings to cover those risks you mentioned in your post. For an instance, the surrogate medical fees will be taken care of till some months after birthing the baby.

#3. For gestational surrogacy, it is the father's genes that generate most of the child's blood in the womb. The mother contributes only a safe haven and a feeding route for the baby.

This is why an HIV positive mother who married an HIV negative man can give birth to a baby that is HIV negative as well because her blood is not involved per se.

Lastly, surrogacy is a good idea especially when it is properly done. I have read about couples who name their surrogates as God mothers to the baby so that the bond formed would not be lost.

I feel that this is way better than having illegitimate children scattered everywhere like some men do.