Life without support: Self-reliant
Hello all hivenas, how are you all, hope you are doing well. There are many people around us who do not have close friends or family members who can be relied on emotionally. For many, this loneliness is a challenge, while many can learn something new from this situation. They have some special habits in their lives, which if we understand, we can be more sympathetic towards them.
Without reliable support of friends or family, a person's only hope becomes their own strength. Step by step, they learn to deal with problems, take decisions and face challenges. This process is never easy, but it increases personal strength and mental strength. Many times they consider asking for help from others as weakness, which makes loneliness a little more intense.
Many people think that being alone only means loneliness. However, the moments of enjoying your own company become very valuable. Reading a book, walking or spending time on your own are the intentional joys of life for such people. Here, loneliness does not mean suffering - but finding inner peace.
Another general qualities of these people want to control their life and environment. When uncertainty in life increases, many people want to keep additional control over their work, routine or emotions in the hope of re -achieving security. Although they sometimes feel safe in it, they may also be disappointed with small problems.
Many times, those who have been hurt by someone close to them for various reasons, put up invisible walls around their minds to protect themselves. This makes it difficult to develop a deep relationship with someone new. They are somehow lifeless, yet inside they are waiting for a connection. With a little courage and trust, these walls also gradually collapse.
Learning to rely on yourself builds a quiet strength many don’t see. It’s not weakness,it’s growth. And those peaceful moments alone often reveal who we truly are.