Weekend-Engagement topics: WEEK 266//Recklessness
https://www.glitter-graphics.com/images/t/b/480x60/3250/3250854tiwr9e4l73.webp
Excellent start to the week for everyone. Mine is filled with family activities that are rarely shared, such as a wedding. This week's questions each have a touch of not wanting to share because they are things that may or may not have happened, and it's a little difficult to express them. Despite this, I chose the following because a memory came to me that made me choose it, to see if writing it down would make that memory go away.
Has there ever been a time in your life when you did something reckless, inappropriate, or insensitive? Explain.
When we are young, despite having groups that we consider responsible, we make decisions that sometimes, without thinking, make us look bad or affect a relationship or trust. At the time, of course, we don't even realize it.
It happened about 30-something years ago. At that time, I was on vacation from work, but I was still attending classes at the university. Because of my work schedule, I was hardly ever able to hang out with my classmates and join in their crazy activities and get-togethers, precisely because my excuse was always work.
That day was my birthday. We left class and had nowhere to go or meet up. We were all students, so we didn't even think about going to a café or some other place to celebrate. At that time, I was renting a room in an apartment. It was morning, and I decided to go there to meet up (the owner of the apartment wasn't there). I didn't ask for permission, but it turned out to be a large group that agreed to go there.
https://www.glitter-graphics.com/images/t/b/480x60/3250/3250854tiwr9e4l73.webp
https://www.glitter-graphics.com/images/t/b/480x60/3250/3250854tiwr9e4l73.webp
It was all very fun. We bought food to make a meal, we made it, we shared it, but like all young people, it was all laughter and jokes. I never thought it would be so noisy. We ate, we played games, we danced, we sang happy birthday, we played cards, it was a real celebration. Somehow, the neighbors told the lady about it, but she never complained to me.
Now, after so much time, I feel that it was very reckless. That memory has come back to me several times, and I feel that I committed a great imprudence. Perhaps the lady thought about telling me to move out, but she never did. That silence lingered in my mind for months afterward, and years later I feel that it was very reckless of me to use the apartment space to gather a few people to celebrate. The good thing is that there was no alcohol and no disrespect among us.
Today I let it out publicly. I don't want to go back to that moment. It was fun, yes, but thank God there were no consequences for me. Nothing more than the emotional aspect, which is enough. I felt dishonest.
https://www.glitter-graphics.com/images/t/b/480x60/3250/3250854tiwr9e4l73.webp
Original written content owned by the author
Photographs owned by the author from her personal gallery on 2025/04/29
Dividers
Translated with DeepL.com (free version)
https://www.glitter-graphics.com/images/t/b/480x60/3250/3250854tiwr9e4l73.webp
Original written content owned by the author
Photographs owned by the author from her personal gallery on 2025/04/29
Dividers
Translated with DeepL.com (free version)
0
0
0.000
💖 Thanks for supporting the #hueso movement with your post! 🦴 You received 1 Hueso token gift.
It's admirable that you reflected on that moment with honesty. Youthful fun can sometimes blur the lines, but your awareness shows growth and responsibility.
Yes, it was really my recklessness that at the time I didn't think I was doing anything wrong.
Thank you.
With the passing of the years we see everything very differently and although what you tell us was a recklessness, it was also a matter of young people and possibly the owner himself realized it or was told about it but did not say anything, understanding just that, that they were young, or who knows. The good thing is that at the time it did not bring you negative consequences and even if it had, it would have been part of the learning process.
Happy weekend, my friend!
Thank you, your words are very accurate.
That's right.
Thank you for appreciating my post.
My friend, as you say, when you are young, you sometimes do many foolish things and even sometimes sin by being insensitive. Fortunately, in your case, it did not have any consequences. I loved reading your post. Hugs!
Thank you.
Best regards,
Expanding wings can often be reckless, just like you did. But not spreading the wings, one may never enjoy those moments.
That's right.