The Art of Letting Go: When Moving On is the Hardest Decision

In this generation people have relationships a lot more complicated than it used to be and like now people don't take relationships seriously because for them it's just time pass.

There's a lot of things that are changed now when it comes to relationships like back then it used to be about love, respect and people in relationships mostly used to end up marrying each other.

But now after not very long people get bored from one relationship, they breakup and move to another one and so on.

I'm still old school when it comes to relationships like I believe in love and when I'll have it I'm going to marry that woman - I'm just that straight.

Though I remember being in this one relationship that I had to let go probably for the worse reason and I'll share how it turned out ahead in this post.

The Art of Letting Go: When you're meant to do more in life

We met at the very strange time of my life it was back then in 2021 when I was in relationship with that one girl I thought is meant for me and I'll marry her at some point in future.

Well everything was going perfectly in the beginning or even after the months but than there comes the part where it started going downhill.

_{image by Kasjan Farbisz from Pixabay}

So, back then we both used to spend most of time with each other and when I was dealing with problems in my life and I was more busy in real life, it wasn't possible to spend more time with her like it used to be.

And she started thinking that I'm maybe not interested in her or cheating like she was insecure but I was going through a terrible experience in life that was needed to be dealt alone.

Anyways day after day I used to tell her it's not like what she's thinking but than it was her who wasn't ready to understand.

At one point I realized that is just becoming worse and I'm not even able to do other stuff in life with that much attention just because my mind is on that relationship.

So I had to ask her that's it we've to work on ourselves.. focus on your life and I'll do on mine instead of fighting over this relationship.

Maybe it was worse to let Go

We should've tried more to work it out but only if she really wanted it than she would've cuz even after years later I'm not completely over that relationship.

_{image by Kati from Pixabay}

The fact that I thought she's the one I'm gonna marry but it turned out that way made it difficult for me to move onto other relationship.

So after 3 years I'm just completely different person focusing on life and my career is priority.

---

Wrapping Up....

In the end I think it is better to be in relationship when you're well settled and have built a career or you're not dealing with major problems in life.

Because you're in a relationship that other person would expect you to give it all and when you won't be able to do it than it'll become worse.

So, for now it's just better to work on making life better and than there'll be surely enough time to be in relationships. Well, I wonder what's your thoughts on this and would love to know about it in the comments.

fin.

Your support is much appreciated. Don't Forget to hit Upvote, Comment and Re-blog.

_{Thanks for reading.Greetings.}

All the content and images are mine except indicated. No copyright infringement intended. 07/08/2024.

Posted Using InLeo Alpha