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INTRODUCTION

As an individual money has been playing a very significant role in our day to day activities and also helping us to survive and that's the main reason the strong feelings we as individual have towards money can never be departed or separate. Despite its a means of survival nowadays and meeting our basics needs and also achieving our financial security, the love of money can have a harm on our relationship especially when it comes to trust, because we don't even want to believe the fact that with money our lives are save with our other part, all we keep is just a facial love or trust when it comes to money but deep down you are having other thought or plans for it as well.

The love of money have really ruin so many relationship and this is because most people don't really trust themselves talkless of trusting other when it comes to money matter, this has really happen and causes damage in family, and mostly closed friend or relationship. Individuals keep having issues with themselves when it involves money and the love of money keep breaking the relationship mostly.

People are now making pursuit of money over everything because they sees money as power, success, and social status and well being. And the desire for financial abundance can lead individual to prioritize financial gain above all else, often at the expense of personal relationships. And the act of non relent pursuit of money can create a breeding ground for trust issues.

TRUST AND FINANCIAL SECURITY

Trust is really essential in life matters, especially when dealing with partners, family , friendship. Trust is also the foundation of all healthy relationship in all aspect and do you know financial security is also an essential aspect of trust. But however, when love of money take precedence, trust can be affected and it can gradually destroy.

The love of money makes trust so difficult within individuals, and we keep destroying the relationship bond just because of the love of money. Which we forget that money can never bring what a true trust can bring for us, pursuing financial security with trust will surely make it easy and acquire things with ease and peace of mind.

CONSEQUENCES OF LACK OF TRUST WITH FINANCIAL SECURITY

Its so difficult to have a good health or overall well being when you don't have trust, because it will keep affect your mental health and you won't have any human feelings but only have feelings for money and how to acquire monetary values.

Although we have many cases of trusting people with your financial wealth but later turn out to betraying eachother, but if we keep this mindset we can be affected and we find out that no relationship will be stable or value with the mindset. We have some people who really trust people by lending them money to settle their bills but to pay back turn out to other way round for the collector.

Another consequence of trust with financial wealth is that we are all different kinds of mindsets and to be trust with your financial wealth is like given your life to the person you trusted with your financial wealth and mostly we find it to be an advantage and sometimes it comes out to a disadvantage for us, in which most people are desperate with someone wealth and when they have opportunities to your financial wealth there mindset is to know how your wealth becomes to be theirs, in such a case they can go any length to harm or destroy you so they can have your assets and that's where we find it hard to trust with our financial situation sometimes.

BUILDING TRUST AND OVERCOMING MONEY RELATED ISSUES

To build trust and overcome money related issues you need to establish open and honest about money with your partner and always be cautioned with everything you say and the response you get back. And you need to be transparent in your financial situation so there will be trust between your partner but not with outsiders and you need to take precautions as well.

In addition, always create a system where financial responsibility are shared and always make a room for joint decision and try to cultivate the mindset that values relationships, personal growth and experience over materials possessions and this will surely help in equality and trust in financial matters.

In Conclusion, always seek professional guidance in all your financial situation and never think you know it all and when trust issues persist never stop asking for help or guidance from financial professionals who specialise in financial matters. In this case while money is an essential aspect our lives, we shouldn't overshadow the importance of trust and healthy relationships.

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