Growing Apart An Open Door For Genuine Friendship.

So still in the discussion of friendship where you see peers you would see Judas among them and when I say Judas I mean not everybody around you that smile with you really like you or take you as a friend, I have seen people that would paint for us the picture of being friends and at the back of each other they say detestable things about each other so until you meet the right person you would keep on encountering the wrong ones, for this second topic I would be participating on is friendship hurdles.

Just like cooking a local rice without proper repairing so is meeting with people who would teach you what level is in a difficult way, without repairing the rice you would jam with stones while eating and because rice is rice even with the repairing you would still meet stones while eating, there's one thing I have learnt about life which is you don't just meet people coincidentally they come into your life for one reason or the other and they stay or leave eventually. I in person have encountered people who call themselves friends but they don't act like it, right from childhood you see those kind of people even till when you mature.

My emphasis is that you would surely meet them and sometimes we are even those kind of people to some other persons, I met some kind of people during my secondary school days and they were wonderful souls even though not everyone is perfect they also had their faults, we were close grew bond together to the extent where I was always eager for the day to break let me go to school so I could meet them, we shared our food together gossiped together, did literally most things together but after secondary school was what we didn't forecast we never thought anything could break us apart.

The end of friendship wasn't just after secondary school it was a gradual process for me per say, we went into the wider world and started mingling with others and started getting other friends, they started getting more exposed than our ages and at that point we no longer shared same interest again, they started exploring Life more earlier than they should which made them treat me like I was not in their class anymore.

Most of the time when we meet what we discuss was no longer what interest me so just like life uproots and plant people in our life so did those friends started getting uprooted in my mind, it got to a time where I knew it was time to move forward because we were no longer going the same direction again, even though I miss them plus anytime I remember those bonds we share it bring back memories but where I am today and where they are is a clear indication that the separation was for the best and just as God would have it He brought my way people who are more than what was taken away.

Hope you have a friend you can lean on confidently, and this is my cue to stop now enjoy the rest of your weekend, I still remain your best girl @graceze I love you all.

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