Black Tuesday, The Weight Of Grief.

Good day Ladies and Gentle Men, another Wednesday in the month of November and we are all opportune to be here so for today I would be picking from the three judicious topics which is "Not so great experience" why not start with those experiences that are not great after all.

You know this normal way you start chatting someone everyday like; how are you? And how went your day? Tooh that was how I started the conversation with a friend of mine yesterday and after asking how went your day? I was expecting the normal answer we Nigeria's give ourselves which is 'it went fine and yours' instead of that I saw that she was recording a voice note and in my head I was like "today must have really been hectic that's why she had to use a voice note to gist me about it" so this tired me waited patiently for her to finish so I can listen to it, not for me to play the voice note and her voice was crack so I had to add the volume because I thought it was network problem or probably low volume but when I increased the volume was when it dawn on me that her voice were actually cracked because she has been crying.

Going further hearing the voice note I got to understand why she has been crying, it was because her uncle's finance died that day (yesterday morning) and it was later in the day that they got the news about it, the death alone wasn't the problem but the fact that her death was caused by her uncle's from her dad's side, they had earlier stated that she wouldn't marry him and by all means they carried out their treats by inviting her over and murdering her in her sleep, how authentic the news is I can't say because I wasn't there but with all fact presented even I is tempted to say they really killed her, the finance's dad is late and she's left with only her mom as her surviving parent.

The news was so devastating that as my friend broke down in tears I had to call her and comfort her, at some point while we were talking on phone she said she wished this was a prank or probably a nightmare that she would wake up from, I was so broken even when I wasn't even close to the person in particular I felt it through my bones as goosebumps filled my body, omoh I had to find words to comfort her atleast to calm her down, I even had to remind a movie for her to watch and take off her mind from everything she'd thinking about.

What even surprised me was that phoenix also carried the news, Me myself started reasoning plenty possibilities and how they could have avoided what happened, I did just learn from the situation rather it's more like a reminder to me that life is a battle ground and you must fight your way through it instead of just following life easily, so at that moment I took one minute to take God for life because we don't know what and what He's fighting on our behalf even as we sleep through the night or walk through the day.

It's a pleasure sharing this experience with you all and I hope you got something today, I still remain your favorite host, see you next time.

All images used here was taken as a screenshot of my friends post yesterday.