Just do it

I have a friend who normally doesn’t see good in everything, he talks about how bad things can get, and when everybody is excited about what the future might bring this guy is always scared and he is full of bad thoughts. This habit was much that I was able to notice, but I can’t blame him because one way we all possess this habit and this is what we do when we are trying to start a new thing. We view all possible outcomes, especially the bad ones so that we won’t be surprised when it happens to us.  Most people use this as a form of reminder and to prepare themselves for what might happen in the future.

This habit can be very disastrous, sometimes when you imagine a scenario in your head and you can’t give a solution to it, it becomes a problem, and not only that it brings about fear and an increase in fear may stop us from doing what we are trying to do. Everybody has this ability to project scenarios that might happen in the future in their head, but what differences us is that some people produce the senior just to give themselves the reason for not doing anything, while, some people project this scenario just to make themselves prepare and to furthermore with what they are trying to do. Sometimes the fear of the unknown can be the reason why we fail from the beginning. 

Do it anyway

To some people life is just like the game of chess, they want to know and predict the outcome of each of their moves, which is not always bad but when we apply this to our life, it becomes complicated. No one can predict the future but we can prepare for the things that might happen, We should never let this stop us from doing the things we want to do. This is the mistake that people with this ability always make, they are so in their head, creating scenarios and scaring themselves away from the future that could’ve saved them. When we think about things we want to do too much we end up not doing them, and this is because of creating fear for ourselves about the unknown. We create fear for things that might not even happen at all.

That is why it is very important when you are trying to do something just do it anyway. You can prepare for all the possible bad outcomes that might happen but this should not stop you you should get out of your head by doing something because everything you are thinking about may not happen, you are not in charge of what and how your future would be. All we think about are the things that have no guarantee that they will happen. When something does not give you a guarantee to happen why don’t you take your time to proceed with your plan and see how everything plays out? Most successful people today are those that are willing to do it anyway even when they are not sure.

Thanks for your time.

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