Criticism

I rewatched  “The Game” again today, and I realize that the villain of the movie who was trying to reduce the world population was not completely wrong. He gave very good reasons to do it and get to a point in the movie I was also convinced that he was doing the right thing but at the end of the day, I realize that nothing will make up for making over 3 billion People disappear all at once. You’re even worse than a serial killer you are a villain of all villains.

The same thing happens when you ask people why they are doing things they are doing, they will always give you a good reason for it. Those who can’t give you a good reason will always shift the blame to someone or something. People will tell you things that might seem like the truth, but in reality, it is a lie they are just trying to support everything they’re about to do with good reasons.

People expect you to understand them and they don’t want you to criticize them.

It is very hard for you to see people who understand that criticism can also be a good thing. Most people don’t like to be criticized when they’re doing something wrong. It might be obvious that what they are doing is wrong and if you criticize them some of these people are going to hold a grudge against you for a long time. The truth is most of these people believe they have good reason for doing what you’re doing so you shouldn’t criticize them even if it is wrong.

We have people whose criticism makes them better, but this set of people is very, very few. Criticism makes most people resentful and even makes it difficult for them to concentrate or to be better and also most people don’t like criticism, but this doesn’t mean that criticism is not good. Criticizing people can even lead to a fight, especially if you are criticizing someone who believes that what you’re doing is right because they strongly believe in their reasons for doing it

Doing something for a good reason doesn’t make it right but I’ve seen some instances where people support doing a bad thing for a good reason. In this situation do you still criticize or show that you understand?

Criticism don’t always work on people because most people don’t like it. Criticism is good and sometimes helps people to learn from their mistakes. Because it doesn’t always work and this doesn’t always mean that people will change when you criticize them. That is why it is always better to use a different approach which isn’t criticism for a way to let people know that what they’re doing is wrong and to do better but this is what people say often works but this doesn’t make criticism bad either.

When people give you reasons, they expect you not to criticize them, and also you should understand why they are doing things they do whether it is wrong or right but good reason doesn’t make a decision right and criticism doesn’t do much change, and much times it does a lot of damage. It is better to use an approach where you make the person understand that what they’re doing is wrong without criticizing them.

Thanks fot your time