Don't give to anyone what your power cannot carry.

You own your life and know your capacity. So many people tend to give what they can not bite or chew. This can bring you:

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Shame: Do you know that there is some shame one cannot bathe in his or her body? This is reality. When you give what your power cannot carry, you will put yourself in great shame. Many people would feel you have the mind to give it whereas you are managing. Your worth is so important and just make sure to take a yes for a yes instead of a yes for a no.
Most people pledge just because of those around them or just because of what they have seen their friends giving. Remember that your friend only gives because he can afford it, but you only give just out of shame. Don't be ashamed of what you don't have, but rather speak your mind and give what you have.

Indebted: You will run into debt when you keep promising what you feel you cannot give. You have just a little, but want to give much, don't you think you are killing your personality? This is the reality. Maybe you only ate a little food instead of loading your stomach just because you want to give what your capacity cannot carry. This would be just like a mess in your path. You would run to people borrowing just to fulfill your promise. This is why you have to give what your capacity can carry, but not what your mind says. I'm pretty sure that you might be thinking of getting it somewhere which is not sure.

It will bring down your image: The fact remains that we all have names to protect and when something comes between the names and something else, it becomes something else.
So many people are looking up to you, and when you allow your ego to bring down your name then you would be seen as nobody.

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