Finding Your Way Back to Clarity

Clarity, it's our default, it's like a natural state. When we're still a child, we live with that clarity, we chase the things we want without overthinking, we express ourselves.

We make ourselves happy without seeking validation or anyone knowing exactly what happens. But along the line, while we start growing up in a world full of too much expectation and judgement, then we learn to hide some sensitive part of ourselves all in the name of being mature.

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We started wearing masks, we started to cover our weakness and insecurities, we avoid being mocked or being shamed, we try to fit into the society what is trendy and all of a sudden we buried our dreams to the mould because they didn't match what others expected from us and we have diverted from what we truly wanted to what we do not want, all in the name of survival. I know it's not our fault, the pressure on the society is much and sometimes they reward conformity.

We are taught to suppress this burning desire in us and this voice that is speaking within us to go for what we want. Over time, we begin to compromise and we end up carrying a version of ourselves that makes us feel like a stranger to ourselves. We continue to lie to ourselves in order to survive, we tell ourselves that we are fine but deep down we are not surviving. Our relationships are not aligning to what we believe, our lives also are not aligning to also our deepest desire.

This is a sign to remind us that you should stick to that clarity you were born with. It is always there, waiting for it to be discovered, what we wanted to be should not be buried just like that. We claim that clarity now start by being small by being brave as I said.

What do I love doing? What you have dream of doing in my life?. What is my purpose and give yourself the permission to fill those void in your life that you'll be missing. It's okay to start small, don't rush yourself as an adults, don't over pressure yourself or make yourself feel like a child again but maybe it's like picking.

Try to write your own story, the true story that you've been trying to write or go on with your life by being authentic, you don't have to have it figured. No one is perfect, everyone is trying to figure out what life's true meaning. Start by listening to that inner voice, bring out your, set it in the right direction.

As usual society might try to pull you back but remember you should follow your scripts and don't mind the script of others. You are not here to keep playing the role of what someone else wants you to do you have to live your life and a life of truth.

Take that deep breath sit back and let that clarity shape your life the world needs to be you and you have to be unapologetic in living that life that you want to leave.