The Cost of Trust: How We Learned to Be Cautious with Neighbors

Something or the other keeps happening in the life of all of us, sometimes circumstances are favourable for us and sometimes not favourable for us and sometimes the matter gets so bad that we have to take the court's help. But most of us try to avoid all these things because it brings a bad reputation and wastes time and also costs a lot of money. Many of us do not decide to go to court for these reasons. Many people take advantage of this thing of people, they know that these people will not go to court, so they try to scare other people, if things go out of their hands then there are many other ways that they can use. Don't shy away from yourself at all. Nowadays, we have seen so many crimes happening in the news. People are not afraid of anything, nor is there any value left for human life. There are many cases in which only a small mistake is made. People become ready to attack each other even on small matters.

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Although our family is a middle-class family living a normal life, problems never come up by talking about them, some problems or the other always persist. Who wants problems in his life, but problems keep coming even if we don't want to sometimes we get defeated by our problems and sometimes we lose courage and are unable to do anything. It happened a few years ago when we were doing the renovation work of our house. New people had come to our neighbourhood a few years ago. They had also got their house renovated. They seemed very helpful, but nowadays no one helps anyone (without any hidden benefits ). It took a long time to realize that it does not help without meaning, but by the time we realized this, it was too late.

Many people speak sweetly but behind your back they stab you in the back and the same happened with us too. When we were doing the work of our house, our neighbours proved to be very helpful to us and the people who helped us in our house. When the work was completed then suddenly many things started being presented in front of us like where should we get so much partition in our share and many other things due to which the atmosphere in our house was very tense in those days but my father did not want to fight. We are not quarrelsome nor do any of us care about such things and we are Vedic and peace-loving type of people. But our new neighbours who had come already had the habit of doing all this. Later we came to know that wherever they have been staying, they have filed some kind of court case against all their neighbors and He is still walking. We had no idea at all that something like this was going to happen to us in the future. Had we had even the slightest inkling of this, perhaps we would have been more alert beforehand and perhaps this would not have happened to us.

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For once we all had decided that we would do it and see what would happen, but then we did not do it because there was no point in doing it because there was no point in it, it was just our time and money wasted and unnecessary headaches also went away, so we all decided that we will not do it forever and my father says that one who does as he pleases is an enjoyer, if you do not have any sin towards anyone in your mind. God above is watching and you will get its reward. If someone is doing bad to you even though you have not done anything to them, then God above will punish you and it is said that God's stick has no sound. I will not say that anything bad or untoward should happen to those who are our neighbours. I would not at all want whatever actions a person does, will get the same results, either it is destiny, or it remains to be seen what happens. Now the relationship between us is not special. it's just a hello, but now we are more cautious than before and believe me, it feels much worse in today's time if you are simple, anyone can take advantage of you, so you have to be a little sharper and You will have to be clever so that your neighbours or other people cannot take advantage of you.

This incident was a lesson for us that we should not trust anyone just like that. If suddenly someone starts getting very attached to you, then first do a little investigation about them. Trusting anyone blindly is very dangerous these days. It may be proved that we learned this lesson that day and now we are a little aware, it remains to be seen what happens.

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