Building Lasting Bonds: My Journey of Choosing Quality Relationships Over Quantity

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Yes, some people share everything but not everyone knows how to do so and in such a situation we need our friends very much with whom we can share all our happiness and sorrows. But not everyone has good friends or friends because not everyone is successful in doing this. You know, everyone is a person with a different personality and some people attract people immediately and some people take time. It feels like hanging out with others. We must have seen many people around us who have very attractive personalities and everyone gets very attracted after seeing them and quickly meet someone and become very good friends with them, but I am the opposite of this. You can say that it takes me a lot of time to make friends because I speak less and I wouldn't say I like to talk much.


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Most of the people who talk a lot make friends quickly and I have seen this many times, but people who talk a lot often lie a lot and I have also seen that their friendship does not last long because time Later people realize their truth and then start running away from them. Have you also seen such people? It is very difficult for me to make new friends, but I consider myself lucky that some of my friends are very close to me and it feels good to see that they always stay with me in my happiness and sorrow. I don't like flattery nor do I know how to do it. Many people are experts in doing this and even if they make a lot of friends, it is not a good thing because doing this is your only loss and one or the other One day people will come to know about your reality.

Many people like to have as many friends as possible and they have a lot of online friendships, but believe me, the more friends you have, the more difficulty you will have in talking to them. A small circle is good because as many The fewer people there, the more you get to know each other. The more people join, the more difficult it becomes to talk to everyone and give time to everyone. And if your circle is small then you do not have to face much difficulty in doing this and you understand each other very well. Even if you are not able to talk to your friends, you still know what to do. Maybe you are not talking to him because of what work he might have sent you and there are many other things which your close friends can know. I believe that more friends means more headaches because the fewer friends you have, the better your relationship is, and the more people you have, the more problems you have, I have seen this many times outside.

The less the Better:

I prefer fewer friends because the small circle is better. After all, having more people leads to problems. The fewer people the better, you get to know each other well and you get to know a lot about their good, bad, likes and dislikes. And there is an advantage of having a small circle because you can have a lot more fun. The more people there are, the more fun it is. It cannot be said that but many things change. It is better to have a bigger circle and less people. More than most people I think. Many people like to make new friends and this is not a bad thing, but still, you cannot maintain the same behaviour with everyone, it is very difficult to do so, I believe. What do you think about this? Do you also like having a lot of friends? Do you like having fewer friends? The advantage of having a small circle is that you can give importance to every friend and make time for them, but it becomes almost impossible to do this in a big circle.


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I totally agree with you, few friends is better.

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Yes that is true , less problems 😬

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I agree with you 110% dear.
I also prefer quality over quantity in making friends.
Nowadays people have more friends and face more problems.
I think we should be quite judgemental in making new friends.
We should be social but we should not compromise on making true friends.

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Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. That is a good quality, indeed. Why bother to make too many friends. The less the better.

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It's always good to have people you can trust everytime, and there are only a handful of these people. Finding such people is often very hard

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Indeed, it is really hard to find people whome we can true blindy these days. We have some then don't let them go. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.

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I think making friends easily is not possible and to make a friend it takes a good amount of time. I think those people are just bluffing who say that they can make friends easily. I made a good connection with someone in a journey doesn't mean I made a friend. If that's calling friendship. than making dozens of friends in a single day is also possible.
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Ha haa sahe kaha bhai apne, wo to bas bas khene ke lea dost hua. Bilkul sahe kaha apne. Real friends ke baat he kuch or he hai.

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No doubt small circle of friendship is always the best one. I have different kinds of friendship in my life. There is one person who knows each and everything of my life from A to Z and I know his A to Z but no one knows even not in blogs.

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Indeed the less the better, it is really hard to give time to everyone. But if we close we do make take to do that it doesn't matter what the situation is.

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