Hot tempered people can be very destructive.
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Moving forward I really want yo say that people who are hot temper are very destructive. In fact you won't know about their destructive nature until you come closer to them. Let me tell us a story and this is a true life story.
When was 18 years old I was privileged to live with one of my aunt who as at that time was still a single lady. Men kept coming to ask her to marry them, but she was a bit skeptical about getting married because of what she had seen in other marriages. There is this particular guy she loves so much and he was also serious about getting married to her. We were all happy for her, but al of a sudden she started withdrawal from him and when we asked her she said that she don't think she can cope with his hot temper. She said that when ever this guy is angry he can just pick anything close to him and throw to anyone close by. he have witnessed this time without number and she said that the best thing for her is to stay away from him so that he can get another girl that he will marry. The guy refused to give up on her, he made all the promises in this world saying that he will change, but she refused him because of how dangerous his temper is. She said that with what she has seen, this man will kill her one dain the name of hot temper. The marriage plans just desolved and tey went there separate ways.
MY CANDIDATE ADVISE
I think and also believe that anyone with such should get help from anger management therapist. I know that there are some people who are trained to help them out of it. No one should manage such situation. When you stay close to them you will understand that it is dangerous. They are destructive and can kill at any slightest mistake. They only fell sorry after they might have done what is in their mind. Just talking to them won't solve the problem, but they should get help. At the process of getting help, I strongly believe that prayers i very much needed. I believe in God and I what God can not do, can not exist.
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Hot temper is destructive and for such a person, they can destroy even their relationships and it’s even worse when they don’t work to change their behavior. Your aunt actually did the right thing.
Hot temper has caused some people alot of things.
Your aunt truly made a wise decision, choosing peace and safety for herself was the right thing to do. I respect your aunt for noticing the warning signs early instead of ignoring them.
Have a wonderful day. 🦋
Your aunty made the right decision because what a shame it would have been to die out of love.
What short tempered people need to do is to keep help instead of making excuses.
The most destructive thing in this life is anger and like you have advised people with hot temper should try and see anger management therapist for solution. Thanks for sharing.
It's best to stay away from someone who can not control their temper. It was best to leave such a fiancee in the case of your story. If he can pick anything and throw at people, what if he one day throws something harmful and it land on the wrong spot on someone?
I know it's not easy but one of the best things we can do for ourselves is to learn how to control our anger..
The worst thing that can happen to a man is not being able to control their anger. It has made a lot of people loss different opportunities